Mmm mmm bath house

I went to my first bath house yesterday.
I love love love being surrounded by naked women! I am delighted that we have people in Toronto who take it upon themselves to organize these inclusive, lovely events. I wish they happened more often.
My friend S. and I arrived later than I would have liked, but still [...]

Coming into my own as a queer woman

I found myself at Cherry Bomb on Saturday evening. My friend S. canceled at the last second, but I had been waiting months for a Saturday off to synch up with Toronto’s hottest queer woman’s monthly, so I went alone.
I had an amazing time!
Cherry Bomb’s tagline is “dance. sweat. cruise,” and though I’ve been to [...]

How do you know you want to become a girl?

Last night, as he was going to sleep, my son J. asked me “how do you know you want to become a girl?”
I replied “I know that I need to be girl. I’ve always wanted to be girl. Even at your age, I knew that I wanted to be girl. Some people—but not many—are born [...]