I went to my first bath house yesterday.
I love love love being surrounded by naked women! I am delighted that we have people in Toronto who take it upon themselves to organize these inclusive, lovely events. I wish they happened more often.
My friend S. and I arrived later than I would have liked, but still [...]

Yesterday, I went to see my family doctor. As is my custom these days, I presented as a woman.
The truth is that I really don’t have a male presentation left anyway. I could assemble one if I wanted to–I’ve hung onto enough clothing, and I’m not on hormones or blockers yet–but I can’t bear the [...]

Various people, notably my wife, have been urging me to pick myself up off the mat. People have said it to me in different ways:

What about being trans in a Buddhist way?
You should be more than a gender–you’re a person
If you need to change your gender, then fine, but you’ve been a mess for over [...]